JR Wertz, WJ Larson, eds. "Space Mission Analysis and Design", 3rd
ed. Kluwer Academic Publishers, 1999. ISBN 0-7923-5901-1. 969 pp.
This is part of the "Space Technology Library". It is the single most
useful book I found for both project management and technical. Other
books specialize on one aspect or another, but this one is a thorough
reference review.
If you can only read one text, this is it. If you can only read one
chapter in this text, read ch 10 ("Spacecraft design and sizing"),
which starts with mission rqmts and derives spacecraft and launch
vehicle design.